FAQ

Questions About The Unsaid

How long does The Unsaid take?

About 5 minutes. It is 14 questions, answered on a simple scale, with your result shown immediately after the last one.

Is this assessment private?

Your answers are used to generate your result on the spot. If you choose to have your results emailed to you, that also goes to our team so we can follow up if you want to talk it through.

What is this actually measuring?

Whether you are having the right conversations, whether your point is landing when you do have them, and whether the conversations that matter are happening at all. It draws on Crucial Conversations by Patterson, Grenny, McMillan, and Switzler, and on Radical Candor by Kim Scott.

Who is this for?

Anyone who has a conversation they have been putting off, whether that is with a direct report, a peer, a boss, or someone outside of work. It is built around your own experience, not a team or organization.

What do I get at the end?

A read on where the conversation is actually getting stuck for you, plus two specific things to try. If you want it emailed and kept, we ask for your name and email at the end.

Is this a substitute for coaching?

No. It is a fast, honest starting point, not a substitute for working through it with an actual coach. Actually having it usually still benefits from support, which is what the free 30-minute call is for.